Sex Tonight For Fun

If you have been in the same relationship, whether you are married or not, for some time you may feel like sex tonight is getting just a tad too predictable. As humans we generally thrive on excitement and variety but when you are in a committed relationship you may find that excitement and variety is hard to find. Just because you are in a committed relationship doesn’t mean that you can’t have great sex tonight, you just need to make having great sex tonight a priority.

First things first, define what great sex tonight means to you. When you know what you are looking for it will be a lot easier to make it happen for yourself. If you don’t know what you want but only know that you are not satisfied with the way things are right now, you’ll have a hard time getting the satisfaction that you need because you don’t know what you are looking for.

Talk to your partner and determine what they like. Ask them what their fantasies are and ask them to really be honest with you about what they want in the bedroom. You may be surprised to hear their responses and you may find that you have more in common than you had previously thought when it comes to sex tonight desires!

Create a list of the things that both of you want to do and put them into a container of some sort. After you have done this, pull out the list and mark off one of the items each time you have sex tonight. This will change things up, giving you the variety and the excitement that you are probably very well looking for. Many times just changing it up and trying something new is all you need to do to start feeling more sex tonight fulfilled tonight!

Don’t follow a routine. When you have been intimate with someone for awhile we tend to develop routines. You both know what works and so when you are together in bed you sort of follow an unwritten script. Resist doing this, instead try something new that will change things up and bring some excitement into the mix. You’ll find that not falling into that routine will force you to try new things and this is always good!

If you are dedicated to having better sex tonight you can start tonight. You just need to be open with your partner about what you want and your desire to have better, more meaningful sex tonight. If you are both open and honest you will find that though you have been with the same person for quite some time, sex tonight can still be fantastic if you want it to be.

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This entry was posted on Tuesday, March 20th, 2012 at 3:44 pm and is filed under sex tonight.

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